兩人在一起是為了一起成長
交往的最終目標應該都要是結婚
不然倆人為什麼要在一起?
For fun? Or just the "Feeling"?
Harris的書說
Lose a relationship doesn't mean that you are a loser
分手之後還可以跟自己說~"我榮耀主了!!"
他引用了馬太福音23:37-39經節
最重要的誡命是Love God and Love one another
什麼事都要為對方而想
e.g.這樣做會影響他教會的生活嗎?
這樣會影響他的工作/學校嗎?
Is it beneficial for him/her?
以這種心態交往
分手之後就不會後悔了
以前的感情到最後都無疾而終 and did not work now.
因為我很自私再加上最重要的--因為我以前心裡沒有神
如果是因為這樣
那下段感情我會定睛在神, so I don't lose it again.
(hmm..理智也是我需要的!!)
再不行~我也能坦然面對
但我比較希望下一次是我最後一次戀愛
No more heart breaking, no more self-healing, no more lose another guy who could be my good friend if we didn't start the relationship, and no more say good-bye.
Idealistically, that's what I want.
Do I have enough patient?
1 comment:
I already told you what I thought, so no need to say it again^^ we can talk about it more when we're back together u know ;)
Doesn't matter whether it's a relationship or marriage, things will get tough at times, and that's just how it is. But as long as you have the faith in each other to deal with the problem, you will still find yourself happy and satisfied, agree?
God will guide you and me, and I'll do my share of the job as good as I can. 3 weeks left now, so just be patient a bit more;) but you see, I won't keep you waiting for too long.
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